Should we get a Puppy

There is nothing like the relationship that can develop between a child and their pet. The bond can last a lifetime, and can open the door to a world of learning experiences. But, how can you tell if now is the time to bring a dog into your home? And how can you increase the chances that the pet you choose will be a great match and a safe match?

Owning a dog is a huge commitment, of time, finances, and emotions. It is important that everyone in the family is part of the decision making process. The best time to negotiate a scenario that works for everyone is before you even begin to look around.

Do you really have the time to add a puppy to your life? Puppies and dogs require a substantial amount of time. New parents sometimes underestimate the time needed. It can be difficult taking the dog out for a nightly walk when your children are in bed by 8:00.

During a family meeting, make a list of pros and cons. In the pros side, write everything that you want in a pet. For example, a gentle mouth or cuddly might be something you would like. A more active family might want a running companion. On the cons side, write everything that you do not want in your pet. For example, you likely do not want a dog that is nippy or a tendency to be aggressive. You may want minimal grooming. Write down everything that is important to you.

Then, and only then, start looking at breeds with an open mind. Consider mixed breeds and rescue organizations in your search. The perfect dog is out there, but it may take some time to find them.

Tips to making a wiser choice.

The breeding of dog is currently unregulated in Ontario. This makes choosing wisely difficult. Here are some guidelines for what to look for, no matter where you obtain your puppy.

- Puppies who are separated from their litter too early usually have very hard, nippy mouths and may not be safe for young children. Dog breeding is a costly undertaking, and in an effort to save money, many organizations will separate a puppy from a litter at too young of an age. Look for litters that are at least eight weeks of age before they are allowed to go to their homes.

- Expect to be grilled by a good breeder or rescue group. Good breeders and agencies care deeply about the dogs they place. They want to make sure the puppies are going to a great home. If someone wants to sell you a puppy, no questions asked – run.

- If possible, meet the dog’s related to your puppy. Is there a possible genetic history of fear or aggression? Good breeders try to eliminate negative genetic traits. If you see aggressive dogs, go elsewhere.

- Expect a contract – and read it. A contract is only as good as what it says.

- Evaluate the surroundings. If you wouldn’t want to live there, or the health of the dogs or puppies is poor – go elsewhere. You can’t make a wise choice looking at an ill puppy. Report the situation to the appropriate authorities, but do not buy out of pity.

- Look for support programs, especially if you have a child. Bite prevention exercises should have been started. If you have a child, you should look for these types of programs. Says Laurie Ristmae, Executive Director of Animal Rescue Foundation (A.R.F.), “There is such a dramatic impact on the long term behaviour of the dogs, when they are put through a problem prevention program. The programs allow us to evaluate the puppies more accurately, and that enables us to search for the most appropriate adopter. I am the parent of two young children and as such, am very committed to the safety of the adopter's children, and of the ARF puppies. Support programs help bridge the gap after adoption, and give families tools that minimize the chance of a bite. We need to do everything in our power to create a friendly dog.”

- A good breeder or good rescue group is honest about their dogs. They want you to be happy, and they want their dogs happy. No dog is perfect. Look for an organization that will tell you the truth about the dog you are interested in. This is especially important if you are considering adopting an adult dog. The last thing any parent wants is to bring an aggressive dog into their home. Ask for a temperament test if you are in doubt. If in doubt, get a professional in to help you proceed in the right direction.

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